Chapter Ten
Hidden Desires

Check off each hidden desire you have.

Act sexy when we are alone together.

Act sexy toward me when we are out.

Act playful when we are alone.

Advise me on what to wear.

Arrange for us to be together.

Attend to my sexual needs.

Attend to my nonsexual needs.

Bathe or shower with me.

Be fun to be around.

Be on time.

Be supportive of my career.

Call me during the day to say hello.

Contribute to our financial well-being.

Cook enjoyable meals on a regular basis.

Create a romantic atmosphere when we're alone.

Dress nicely when we go out.

Empathize with my feelings.

Don't argue with me.

Don't call me sarcastic names.

Give me free time away without complaint.

Greet me with a special hello.

Hug me.

Initiate creative dates.

Keep in touch when we are apart.

Keep yourself looking clean and attractive.

Know I'm not always in the mood for sex.

Laugh at my jokes.

Listen to my ideas.

Listen to my concerns.

Participate in my hobbies or interests.

Plan activities for us together.

Pursue your own interests.

Show independence.

Show off your body for me.

Spend time with me.

Surprise me with special favors.

Keep a clean home.

Tell me you love me daily.

Touch and squeeze my shoulders.

Rub my hands with lotion.

Leave a very provocative message on my voice mail, telling me exactly what you want to do with me. . .and follow through!

Treat me as very important in your life.

Wear sexy lingerie for me.

Send me flowers.

Exercise regularly.

Be honest with me.

Take a bath with me.

Help me with the grocery shopping.

Call me when we can't see each other.