Why You Should Read Top Secrets
by Wendee Mason, MBA
You'll be able to say what you really want, but haven't been able to tell your partner.
Understand how your mate thinks, so you don't have to be a mind reader.
Top Secrets brings you closer together by revealing the truth.
Discover your partner's wishes and desires, a direct connection to his or her heart.
Men: answer the Top Secrets questions to show her what you want and how you want it.
Women: Top Secrets will enable him to nurture you, without having to tell him in person.
ISBN1-58457-100-4 $10.00
Copyright 1998 Wendee Mason All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying and recording, or by any information storage or retrieval system, except as permitted in writing from the author.
Acknowledgments
To my life partner, Stephen Cosgrove, who showed me love is better the second time around. Thank you Steve, for teaching me when a man loves a woman, he will really make her a priority. Thank you for showing me that asking and honestly answering questions is the best way to create intimacy.
Thank you Paula Baron, my business partner for being The woman behind the woman, and supporting me though everything it takes to create, write, teach, and market. You are my most valuable player!
Preface
Most people are not mind readers! Some people assume their partner wants the same thing they want in a relationship, romance, and sex. Some mates are afraid to ask their partner their preference because of fear or shyness. Others simply have never seriously thought out what they desire in a relationship.
Top Secrets will help you start thinking and talking. Since no two people are the same, or want the same thing in a relationship, each partner can create his or her own instruction manual with his or her responses to the Top Secrets questions. When a new partner enters your life, you can hand him or her your personalized road map to your heart. Your partner will be delighted and relieved that he or she won't have to read your mind to know how to please you.
You can fill out Top Secrets together. It addresses important relationship topics such as personal history, difficult situations, secret deals, time together and apart, gifts, romance, and sex.
There are no right or wrong answers. Notice which questions are easy or difficult to answer or talk about. The responses, the tone of the conversation, and what is not answered is all information to help you determine what each person wants, how he or she wants it, and if you are meant for each other!
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