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I stay at home a lot
I don’t ask people out on dates
I freeze up when faced with someone with whom I have chemistry
I don’t mingle well at parties or social gatherings
When I go out with my friends to "hunt", I rarely wander from my group
I often say no when someone approaches me for a dance
I never go to singles events alone
I never go to bars or dance places alone
I keep dating the same type of person who may not be appropriate for me
I am nervous in front of the opposite sex when I’m attracted to him or her
I seldom take advantage of meeting people while running errands; grocery store, dry cleaners, gym, bank, fast food places, department stores, post office
I seldom hand out my business card to other singles
On a first date, I’m really nervous
I often say yes when I really want to say no
I have been single longer than I would like to be
It makes me nervous just thinking about joining a singles group
I don’t have thousands of dollars to join a matchmaker or video dating service
I have joined a matchmaker or video dating service, but the people didn’t thrill me
I don’t always look my best so I don’t approach others when I’m out of the house
I turn down invitations to meet others because it’s uncomfortable for me
I know I’m a great catch, but I don’t know how to find someone
My friends keep telling me I need to get out more often
I know I need to update my wardrobe but I don’t like to shop
I really don’t know what people think about me when I first meet them
I tend to stay around the food table at parties
I wait for others to approach me
It has been more than a month since my last date
My last relationship really damaged my self-esteem
My dating confidence is not where it could be
My dating skills are outdated
I am shy in public I don’t know how to go and start a conversation
I have a hard time remembering names
I don’t know what colors to wear to attract others I feel nervous meeting strangers
I am not comfortable feeling vulnerable
I want to get more comfortable in new situations
I want to learn how to be more assertive in dating
How to approach without feeling awkward
How to make someone want to talk with you
How to remember someone's name
How to make someone remember your name
How to determine common interests quickly
How to exit a boring conversation
If interested, how to set up the next meeting
How to get the man to ask you out
How to reject someone kindly
Should I meet or pick up my date?
What to wear on the first date
How to act on the first date
Where to go on the first date
How much money to spend on the first date
What to talk about on the first date
What not to talk about on the first date
How to get important questions answered
How not to interrogate the other person
How not to appear nervous
How to be calm and relaxed
Deciding the length of time for the first date
Whether to drink alcohol on the first date
Deciding if there is chemistry
When to kiss
Getting attached to the outcome of the date
How to ask for the next date
How to say no to the next date
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