DateSmart
Workshops
SAN
DIEGO
Schedule & Location
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DateSmart Secrets
STARTING DATES:
February
10, 2007
April,
2007
June,
2007
September, 2007
TIME:
8:15 AM to 9 PM
LOCATION:
Holiday Inn, Sports Arena Blvd, San Diego
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DateSmart
Sessions
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1 Choices,
Myths & Baggage |
Learn
the myths and facts about dating. Develop a personal card
to give to others at all single's events. A personal card
is different than a business card. It will protect you from
weird people by not revealing your home or work phone number,
and it will help you start a conversation with anyone, anywhere
to see if you have common interests. Discover what people
really think of you by getting feedback from your group
about your first impressions you give them. Yes, it's scary,
but important to know! |
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2 Your Package:
An Inside Job |
Overcoming
dating and intimacy fears. How to drop your act you have
on the first date and relax by being yourself. We help you
with your self-concept and give you self-esteem tips. Are
you shy? We'll tell you why and how to overcome shyness.
If you want to meet a well balanced person, you have to
become a well balanced person. We'll help you figure out
your strengths and weaknesses. We work on articulating the
assets you bring to a relationship. |
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3
Discovering Who I Want and Going
For It! |
We'll
show you the seven qualities to look for in a mate and give
you 87 poignant questions to ask on the first four dates
to help determine if your date has these qualities. Figuring
out your dating type. Develop your ideal mate list. Know
what differences spell trouble for couples. Know what similarities
in character are essential for couples to succeed. Wendee
will help you design and place a personal ad and voice mail
message to attract the person you have been searching for.
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First Date Preparation |
How
to get the proper dating attitude. How and where to meet
your future date. Learn how to use the body language and
vibes of attraction, why you can't always trust other's
body language. How to give rejection with tack so as not
to damage another person. Learn how to receive rejection
and not let it bother you. Finally, learn how to turn a
no into a yes! |
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5
First Date Preparation
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You'll
learn why you have first date jitters and how to overcome
them by taking control of your dating situation. Understanding
the importance of the predate. How to ask for a date on
the phone and in person. How to start and keep a conversation
going. How to exit conversations that are going nowhere.
Learn important dating etiquette and how to handle sticky,
embarrassing situations such as who pays the bill? How to
handle the single parent dilemma. What is the drip method
and why is it so effective. Why do men say "I'll call
you " and never do? Why do women use the answer machine
instead of tell you the truth. Learn the four dating personality
styles and why dates don't go well when you date out of
your style. Discover male and female dysfunctional dates
and how to spot and avoid them. |
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Session
6
The Eight Date Strategy, Sex, Expectations,
and Condoms |
Learn
what to do after the predate. Wendee has developed an eight
date strategy guaranteed to flush out the dysfunctional
people. Learn how to experience all you can with this new
date within two months so you don't have to spend years
in an unsatisfying relationship. You will learn that there
is more than one size of condoms! Discover which brands
are what size. Get out your banana and get ready to practice
putting on and taking off a condom the DateSmart way! Wendee
reviews all types of contraceptives and passes diaphragms
and female condoms around to examine them for yourself.
A "must experience" class! |
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Session
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Love and Commitment |
So
what is love? When do you know you are in love. What is
a secret deal and how does it destroy relationships? We
discuss male and female expectations in relationship and
how they differ. When should you commit to your partner
and what are the levels of commitment? Is living together
a good idea and what are the strategies to get someone to
marry you? Learn how to maintain a healthy relationship!
How to say goodbye when the "honeymoon" is over,
whether it be weeks, months, or years. |
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Session
8 Communicating
the Truth with Difficult Dating Situations and Speed Dating
Techniques |
We
tell the truth in DateSmart and this class you get to practice
the technique while overcoming difficult dating situations.
Each current student will role-play a difficult dating situation
to everyone in the class.
Speed dating
is a way of communicating your "non-negotiables"
on the first encounter. We practice telling each other
what really matters to us in a mate.
Go
to "What I will receive when I enroll!"
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